March 2017

You’ve been VERY naughty.

Soda Keg

I love soda water. I got hooked on it after a particularly hot and humid day in Cuba. There’s nothing quite as refreshing, especially with a twist of lime!

So naturally I started buying bottles of soda water in the stores when I got home. Only problem is they cost $1.15 a bottle! So I started ordering in bulk from Amazon, which brought me down to 60c per bottle. Half the price!

But then again, 60c a bottle adds up, especially when I’m drinking 2 bottles worth a day.

So, it’s time to nip this thing in the bud once and for all!

= soda water on tap!

Total cost: $350

Cost to refill co2 canister once a year: $25

Cost of consuming 2 bottles a day over the course of a year: $0.60 x 2 x 365 = $438

I appreciate that you're taking your time to find the right girl for you. Compatibility will help ensure the relationship will last. Good luck and best wishes to you and the soon-to-be yours!

Thanks so much!

You're sick. You're just looking for someone weak to victimize. I hope someone calls the cops on you.

It always amuses me how quick people are to judge.

Crops failed? Must be a witch. Go grab the weird girl, she must be the one. And if she wasn’t, she’s somehow got it coming anyway.
Ugly crime in our midst? Go round up the undesirables. One of them did this for sure. We’ll have ourselves a hanging.

I count my lucky stars that I live in a society based on the rule of law. And because of that, you have no say in what she or I does.

Happy Friday. Careful you don’t choke to death on your own bile.

Just a few minor adjustments, dear.

How’s my dirty little whore this morning?

rapekittn:

making myself worth something

Good girl.

My desire is your job.

You’re so sweet when you break.

Would you, and of course the submissive themselves, be willing to speak to a potential? If not are you a part of a community that can offer insight about you?

I don’t know what you mean by a potential. I’m part of a great community where I live, but even they don’t have the level of insight about me that you do from reading my blog. This is where I speak unfiltered.

Every relationship/dynamic developes and grows. How do your see your future with your slave? What relationship/dynamic goals do you have?

Basically everything I’ve been writing about on this blog. The girl I seek is the one with a need to serve, because I am a man with a need to be needed. When people naturally provide the needs of the other, there is no forgetting to do it, or feeling like it’s a chore; it just happens. Not every need will be met this way, of course, but when the most fundamental needs are, it strengthens the relationship in a way nothing else can.

In our future, I see her security in me. I see us living here, on my farm, and growing old here. I see us being a part of the community. Even though my neighbors are miles apart, I know more of them than I’ve ever known of neighbors a few feet down in the city.

I see us traveling, because there are many parts of the world I still want to visit, and it’s always more fun traveling as a couple.

I see her forever my slave, to serve, obey, be cared for and nurtured. Her place is at my feet, and in my heart.

Why don't you ever talk about the subs you talk to?

Because it’s nobody’s business but mine.

You say you've met quite a few submissives, right? If you're being completely honest, have you ever cared about one of them?

Of course I have.

So basically, according to what you've said to the last anon, you want a natural submissive. Good luck, to find a natural submissive with the qualities to want is damn near impossible.

Actually, I’ve met plenty. The trouble is finding one who isn’t too far away to come, tied up with something, or simply too scared to make the jump.

When you imagine your potential slave what traits or characteristics do imagine she would have? Funny? Intellectual? Do you see yourself attempting to develop those traits in her if they are absenst? How would you do so?

These traits cannot be developed. Either she’s born with them, or she’s not.

However, these traits come at a cost:

What I teach depends on the girl. There are things more suitable to some than to others. As Michelangelo said: Every block of stone has a statue inside it and it is the task of the sculptor to discover it.

I accept your apology.

Now it’s time for your punishment, and then forgiveness.

I would chastise other anons for those questions, but I have one of my own. You said you were taking several subs under consideration, but much like an interview, one has to stick out. You have a very specific type, and i figure around five have come close, but only ONE can perfectly suit you. So, does SHE have little/ pet tendencies, and what are they?

You misunderstand. I’m in contact with a few submissives, and have been for years, but not with any under consideration at this time. And if I did have any under consideration, what they’re like would be nobody’s business but mine.

Are you currently talking to someone you would consider as a slave? Or would you consider them as a pet or a little? Are you talking/ do you know anyone with little/pet tendencies?? If so, what are they?

I’m in contact with many girls I would consider slaves (some with masters, some without), with different girls having minor tendencies in different directions.

I suspect that I don’t attract those with stronger little/pet tendencies because I don’t post things that cater to those crowds much.

Would your slave need to know how to take care of herself? Personally, it's annoying to me when I have to take care of them.

It depends on what you mean by “taking care of herself”.

I’ll be making the money and policy decisions. I’ll decide what goes into her body. I’ll decide her exercise regime. I’ll decide what chores she does. I’ll tell her how I want her hair and what clothes to wear, but actually doing the personal grooming is on her.

I’ll expect her to cook. And if she can’t, I’ll send her to culinary school (actually I’ll probably send her regardless). I’ll expect her to keep the place clean and presentable. I’ll teach her poise and grace and then I’ll expect her to use it when we’re out.

When people ask her to do things, I’ll expect her to seek my permission first. I know she’ll get overwhelmed left to her own devices, so I’ll be the one to say no.

That probably doesn’t meet your standard of “taking care of herself”, but then again I demand a LOT of control when she’s living under my roof.

I’ll take you everywhere, little girl, but I’ll never let you forget what you are.

You’re mine.

No, not just a little; you’re mine completely, utterly.

Not just sometimes; ALL the time.

You’re my property. And you know it.

Time out.

Just breathe in that country air!

Show daddy what a good little slut you are.

Are sub considerations still open? Or are you in the process of getting one?

Still open. 90% of people who contact me think they’re serious, but then discover they’re actually not. That’s not necessarily a bad thing. Better they discover it sooner rather than later.

All dolled up.

Hello again! Your post about the woman in the checkout line got me thinking and curious - how would you approach a woman that you suspected was submissive and possibly interested in the life you offer when meeting in such an everyday way? I suppose I have a difficult time picturing you bringing up owning a girl during a coffee date haha. ~WilfullWallflower

oneofeverythingthankyou:

beggingforpermission:

keepingher:

I’d ask her out on a date. First date would be something simple like coffee. It would be fairly short, and I’d likely do most of the talking since she’ll be shy.

If that goes well I’d invite her on another date. Dinner this time. I’d tell her something specific to wear for me. I’d ask her what she wants to eat, but I’d do the ordering. Meanwhile that will segway into what she can and cannot eat, because the next time I’ll be telling her what she’ll have.

It just goes on like that, with me taking over more and more. In bed I’ll do things like pin her arms, position her legs, tell her what to do.

I’ll take even more control, grabbing her, manhandling her, using her, adding punishments whenever she fucks up: simple things like spanking, or even putting her in the corner.

Putting a mask over her eyes so she can’t see while I touch her (and forbidding her to move). Forcing her to stand, keeping her hands behind her while I inspect her, etc etc. The restraints will simply be a natural evolution of what we do. They’ll be symbolic of the control I already have.

It’s all gradual, and I’ll know weeks in advance if I’ve read her wrong.

I’m sure that would work for some women.

I’ve had a guy try to tell me what to wear on a date before. A scenario like this; we had met before but were going on something more time-intensive.

I shut that shit down fast.

I’ll obey when you’ve earned it. And we’ve negotiated it.

But then again, I don’t have a submissive personality.

You know what’s an* AWESOME and ETHICAL way of getting sexual experiences that you enjoy with a new potential partner? Asking said partner, out loud, using words you both understand if they want the same sexual experience.

*it’s actually the only awesome and ethical way.

Like I said, I’ll know weeks in advance if I’ve read her wrong.

What's your thoughts on self-conscious subs?

It’s normal.

Hi I hope you're having a lovely day I was wondering your thoughts on orgasm denial

Orgasm denial is a very effective tool for asserting my ownership (not to mention keeping her horny). Like any tool in my toolbox, it has its time and place, and my decisions for what tools to use depend on what part of her psyche I’m working on.

Like a Pet

Often when I’m trying to explain to someone what I mean by keeping a slave, I’ll equate it to keeping a pet (specifically, a dog). Here’s why:

Do you expect your pet to be a net monetary gain?
Pedigree breeders and pet show folks are one thing, but for the vast majority of us, a pet is a money and labor intensive enterprise. There’s nothing material to be gained by it, nor do we expect it.

Do you expect your pet to take care of itself?
A big part of the appeal is taking care of something that would fare worse if you weren’t there.

Do you wish your pet could take charge more?
Who ever heard of a pet with authority over any of your affairs?

When your pet does something bad or annoying, do you think it’s about time to get rid of it?
Obviously not. Your pet is a part of the family. You punish the bad behavior, and train your pet so that it’ll know what you expect.

Do you get annoyed when your pet wants to be close to you?
Sometimes you just don’t feel like it, but usually you’re happy for it. Dogs especially are needy by nature, and it’s part of what draws a dog lover.

Do you expect your pet to generate income?
For 99% of us? No.

Is your pet your equal?
No, and it never will be. It would be foolish to expect such a thing.

A pet is something you choose, not for what it can do, not for its skills, not for how together its life is, not for its economic contribution, but rather for something that you can love, care for, feed, guide, and give discipline and training.
The fact that it’s inferior to you and always will be is completely inconsequential and misses the point of keeping a pet.

A woman who is truly loved is the happiest of all.

Showing you the truth you can’t admit.

It’s what I do.

Are you feeling better today Sir? You seemed a little on edge yesterday

Yesterday was a hectic day. I definitely could have done with some flesh to whip.

Focus.

Livestock.

Keep your chin up, dear!

When she’s focused, the worries of the world melt away.

In one of your previous posts you mentioned that focus is important to proper and good service. In what ways would you yourself help with or encourage that focus? What suggestions do you have for a s-type to help herself focus when she begins to wane? Rituals were mentioned, are there any other things? What about when rituals are disrupted?

Mostly, teaching focus is about eliminating distractions, and quieting the noise in the mind.

There are two major approaches to teaching focus, and I use both.

The active approach involves putting her into a task that she cannot avoid. This usually means some sort of stress position, where she can remain somewhat comfortable as long as she maintains her position, but will automatically and through her own actions experience pain if she falters. Fatigue starts to set in after awhile, and that’s usually when she’ll start to complain, which is when I’ll start adding more torments (caning her tits or whatever) until she quiets down. This works for a number of reasons:

First, the “instant punishment” aspect of fucking up forces her to keep focused. She’ll reach a level of focus she simply could not do on her own.

Second, the fact that she knows I’m a sadist, and derive pleasure from watching her suffer, eliminates any worry of disappointment from her failures at this. I derive pleasure every time she fucks up and suffers for it, and she knows I’ll keep her in this position a long time because I like to watch her suffer, so the only motivating factor that remains is the physical pain. Shame and fear of failure are eliminated.

The passive approach is much simpler. Just lock her into a somewhat confining position and tell her to stay still and quiet. Depending on the girl, it could take some time for her mind to quiet down, which is why I insist on no movement or sound. An unquiet mind WILL cause her to move, and my punishment of that movement will be swift.

The power of a ritual is in its routine application. Break the routine and the ritual loses its power. A disrupted ritual must be re-established immediately. Rituals are what help her return to that focus without having to take the more drastic measures I’ve listed above. But the ritual can only be properly learned by a focused mind, so the usual steps are: focus her mind manually, then train her in the ritual.

I've been following your blog for a while now and find most of the asks from others and found them lacking in one particular subject, and since I'm curious and learning myself I may as well ask about it. What services, often called vessles, should or would you require a slave to learn? I'm currently learning to cook and speak Korean (my Dom is such) along side various forms of intellectual entertainment so as to better be of use to Him. I thought it would be useful for your potentials to know.

How to cook properly is absolutely essential because I’m VERY careful about my food. I’d probably end up sending her to culinary school.

I’ll definitely teach her poise and grace, so that she can honor me with her movements while we’re out.

She’ll learn how to take care of the house and farm.

Sexual skills, obviously.

Beyond that, it really depends on her talents. Whatever I find, I’ll develop.

Home at last.

Do you like girls with tattoos that listen to LCD soundsystem?

I’m mostly ambivalent about tattoos, but there comes a point where it’s simply too many.

What she listens to won’t affect how I like her.

I was trying to get courage to talk to you sir but it's no use. I'm nothing special. I'm just a fuckup. And now I ruined this, too.

Don’t you think that judgment should be left to me?

There are only two things I want to know before I let a slave in:

  1. Do you meet my physical requirements (petite frame and of normal body weight)?
  2. Can you obey me and follow with all your heart?

That’s it. That’s all I require of you. I really don’t care about what skills you have or don’t have. There’s absolutely NOTHING you can do to prove your worthiness to me, because you don’t compare and never will. You’re not going to be instrumental in any way to my ability to reach my goals or accomplish things.

I already know that you’re a fuckup. It comes with the territory. It’s why you need a master. You’re going to fuck up. A lot. I don’t like you for your successes, and I don’t hate you for your failures. My love is not based on how you perform.

There’s only one hole a master cannot fill himself: His need to care for someone. And it’s the broken who need the most care.

I consider myself an artist.

Aww! Do they hurt, my little precious?

Completely.

Totally.

Utterly.

Mine.

She knows who they belong to.

Drupal contributor of 12 years forced out for BDSM

https://techcrunch.com/2017/03/26/sex-and-gor-and-open-source/


Quick notes:

This is a political purge, and must not be taken lightly. Once the first guy gets the cojones to ouster someone for their private life, and gets off relatively easily, others will soon follow.

So, we’re faced with another round of activism. Whether you care about Drupal or not, it has now become a political opponent of the BDSM community.

Fortunately, there are many ways to communicate your displeasure to the Drupal community:

DrupalCon, Inc.
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Portland, OR 97232
United States of America


I think #BigotedDrupal has a nice ring to it. Don’t you?


Be heard.

Punishment

I’m not sure if people understand the nature of work for an IT professional. It’s a work purely of the mind. By the time I’m typing out the code on the keyboard, the cognitive effort is already done, and I’m just encoding it in a format the computer will understand. The lead-up to it, the point where I’m just sitting there, staring off into space… THAT is where the real work is being done. THAT is where the innovation happens. THAT is where I’m weighing 10 different solutions, playing them out in multiple scenarios, following inputs and outputs to spot the flaws in my design. Finding the edge cases where it breaks down. Readjusting to compensate, all the while keeping this vast structure alive in my head, filling in progressively more intricate detail until-

“Master?”

The word hits like a boulder against a crystal palace.

“I told you not to speak while I’m working.” I say, trying to contain my anger. “But I’ve brought your tea, master!” she says plaintively. “You can bring it without speaking!” I snap. I’m struggling to keep my cool. This isn’t something a non-engineer would readily understand, but rebuilding the mental structure takes a good 10-15 minutes. And getting back into the zone, who knows? All from one interruption.

I don’t want to react to this because I’m emotional now, but her tone is impertinent, so I have to. This is where the true trial of self control and discipline comes in. “Your instructions were to not speak, correct?” I ask testily. “Yes, but…” “No buts. Yes or no.” “… yes, sir.” she says. “And you disobeyed me, didn’t you?” She lowers her head. “Yes, sir.” “Now I have to punish you when I should be working.” “You could punish me aft-” she withers under my stare. This happens now. That’s the only way it can be.

“Turn around. Hands on your head.” She does so as I pull off my belt. “Count!” I say, and swing. The leather bites deep into her skin, leaving a half-moon welt on her ass. I’m going full force this time. This is not acceptable behavior by any measure. Smack! Smack! I lay into her while she counts. “Stand up straight!” “Your hands do NOT fucking move!” “Get up and present your ass properly!” We go up to 30 before I’m satisfied. Her ass is a mess of red with purple splotches. Her tears are more from shame than from the pain, and that’s only proper.

“Now tell me what you did wrong.” I say. “I disobeyed you by speaking when I shouldn’t, master.” she says as she struggles with the tears. “And what was the result?” I ask. “Your work got interrupted.” she says. “And?” “… and it made you angry.” she says. “And?” “… and…” she wilts a little. “I don’t know what else, master. I’m sorry.” “You made it necessary to punish you during work, taking my time and focus away from my job.” I say. She starts crying again. “I’m sorry, master. I won’t do it again. I’ll be good, I promise.”

Sigh.

“Go stand in the corner. You’ll stay there until I finish work, and then you’ll finish your chores.” That’s a good three hours from now. She stands in the corner, facing the wall, hands at her sides. “And don’t you dare slouch! I’ve got to watch you now to make sure you stand up straight, and if you break my concentration again I’ll be a lot more angry!” “Yes, sir! I’m sorry, sir! I’ll be good, sir!”

I go back to my work, trying to piece together the shattered remains of the crystal palace.

Hello again! Your post about the woman in the checkout line got me thinking and curious - how would you approach a woman that you suspected was submissive and possibly interested in the life you offer when meeting in such an everyday way? I suppose I have a difficult time picturing you bringing up owning a girl during a coffee date haha. ~WilfullWallflower

I’d ask her out on a date. First date would be something simple like coffee. It would be fairly short, and I’d likely do most of the talking since she’ll be shy.

If that goes well I’d invite her on another date. Dinner this time. I’d tell her something specific to wear for me. I’d ask her what she wants to eat, but I’d do the ordering. Meanwhile that will segway into what she can and cannot eat, because the next time I’ll be telling her what she’ll have.

It just goes on like that, with me taking over more and more. In bed I’ll do things like pin her arms, position her legs, tell her what to do.

I’ll take even more control, grabbing her, manhandling her, using her, adding punishments whenever she fucks up: simple things like spanking, or even putting her in the corner.

Putting a mask over her eyes so she can’t see while I touch her (and forbidding her to move). Forcing her to stand, keeping her hands behind her while I inspect her, etc etc. The restraints will simply be a natural evolution of what we do. They’ll be symbolic of the control I already have.

It’s all gradual, and I’ll know weeks in advance if I’ve read her wrong.

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